Monday, September 23, 2024

A conversation with the Legends: insights from past PETRONAS leaders

 



In commemoration of PETRONAS 50 years, our Facilities Development department reached out to several past leaders to share their leadership wisdoms to share with the team. 


Alhamdulillah we were honored to have the opportunity and privilege to interview 3 legendary leaders: Johari Dasri (ex MD-CEO, Carigali), Azhar Noordin (ex SGM of Development Division, Carigali) and Kamarshah Harun (ex project manager, GM Petroleum). 


Here is a sneak peak of insights and takeaways I got:


The key to effective negotiation: the human touch of Listening & Understanding. 

After experience in Negotiation with all sorts of stakeholders, locally and internationally, one leader shared that the key to success is the human touch. If both parties stubbornly impose their demands, when an unstoppable force moves and immovable object, nothing moves. Sometimes, simply listening and understanding is enough to resolve misunderstanding and remove the bottleneck! 


Diversifying your skillsets - all 3 of them repeated this same message: don't just stay in silo and stubbornly stick to your individual skill groups. Be proactive and passionate about learning of others work, what they do and how that ties in and from your scope. This makes you a better all-rounded decision maker and gives you courage to make tough decisions and take calculated risks to blaze a trail into unchartered territory. 


An unexpected lesson: how family plays an important role to productivity - a leader shared that during an emergency crisis in one of the international operations, the company instructed all staff to evacuate their family members (spouse and children) back to their home country, in the interest of safety. Naturally, they weren't happy about it but eventually complied. The unexpected result? 

Staff performance had a significant drop in performance. Leadership wisdom: we only see our colleagues during the 8 hours they are with us. What happens in those remaining hours? It's there that they find the inspiration and motivation to deliver their best. And Without their families, they lose a big part of what makes them whole. Leaders need to understand this. 


As leaders, you will constantly face situations where you need the Courage to Act - All 3 of them had to blaze the trail in areas which had no precedent. Many things can go wrong. You will feel intimidated, and suffer impostor syndrome, and sometimes go against odds of people who doubt you and don't believe in you or look down on you. But at the same time, remember: you are in the driver's seat in this chapter of history! Always learn, improve yourself, instill confidence in your own and your team's abilities, and seize the day! 

Make mistakes? Own up to it, be honest and transparent, apologize if you caused some damage, move on. 

Takeaway for leaders: Provide the space for your team members to make mistakes! 



As Muslims, we always have to remember about the concept of "rezeki" /rizq. Allah has already determined, so Don't envy others or compromise your integrity by taking what doesn't belong to you. Big problems happen when you have envy & PHD (perasaan hasad dengki)!


Be intentional and mindful. Always ask yourself, "why am I here?" what is your purpose? Your goals? What legacy would you want to leave behind after you're gone?


No matter how far you go, always remember your SHARED VALUES; this is Who you are!  















































Thursday, September 19, 2024

Liqo Mahabbah: Majlis Perjumpaan Keluarga Al-Ibrahimi, 16 September 2024 @ 12 Rabiul Awal 1446H

 



Alhamdulillah, baru-baru ini ahli kami sekeluarga berjaya menganjurkan majlis perjumpaan kaum Al-Ibrahim (merukuk kepada Haji Ibrahim, moyang saya dari sebelah mak) yang berasal dari Kampung Masjid di Kota Bharu, Kelantan.


First time saya kenal keturunan saya 4 generasi ke atas! 


Pada majlis yang ini kami mendengar setiap wakil dari keluarga G2 (generasi ke-2) menyampaikan ucapan berkongsi pandangan. Memberi inspirasi kepada saya, sebagai "muda" G5 untuk mendengar daripada kisah-kisah legenda masa lalu dan bagaimana masa telah berubah secara drastik semenjak zaman Jepun dahulu, terutama sekali dlm azam & ketabahan diri, semangat kejiranan, Komuniti dan khidmat.


Interesting observation: Orang zaman dulu, jangka hayat mereka lebih pendek, jadi ramai ibu bapa mereka meninggal dunia pada usia muda.. saudara mereka (dan kadangkala, guru mereka) yang berusaha untuk menjaga, mengasuh mereka, dan secara langsung membentuk sikap dan pandangan hidup. 

Inspired dengar mcm mana mereka dicampakkan dalam keadaan sukar, tetapi dengan keajaiban dan rahmat  Allah, Dia meletakkan orang2 baik  untuk bantu mereka.


Kesemuanya membentuk Akhlak dan sikap mereka untuk bersyukur, merendah diri, dan berusaha gigih jadi tough - sesuatu wajib yg dipelajari dan dihayati oleh kita yg generasi muda (bila lagi nak mengaku muda 🤣). 


Islam amat mementingkan hubungan persaudaraan @ silatur Rahim. Banyak ayat Al-Quran dan Hadith Nabi ï·º menekankan perkara ini, termasuk amaran keras terhadap mereka yang memutuskan tali persaudaraan. 


Tambahan lagi, sebagai dorongan, Nabi ï·º bahkan menekankan silaturrahim antara rahsia kekayaan dan umur panjang - bersabda, “Barangsiapa ingin dilapangkan rizkinya dan dipanjangkan umurnya, hendaklah ia menyambung tali silaturahmi.” (Al-Bukhari, Muslim)


Syok, tengok kesan selepas event ni habis - tiba2 group WhatsApp kami bertambah meriah dan kecoh, merancang perhimpunan seterusnya, kenangan, kisah dan gambar2 lama, sekaligus mencetuskan idea projek buku untuk mendokumentasikan dan salasilah sejarah keluarga, untuk dijadikan teladan bagi semua, diketuai oleh Captain Kamil, seorang otai dan veteran dalam Industri penerbangan serta penulis untuk 7 buah buku.


Semoga Allah memberi ganjaran kepada Haji Saifuddin (sepupu kedua kepada ibu saya) dan keluarganya, atas inisiatif dab usaha murninya untuk menjayakan Himpunan ini, menyatukan keluarga selepas bertahun-tahun bekerja keras - mencari ahli keluarga yang telah lama hilang dan di mana mereka berada. Bukan mudah untuk menganjurkan acara dalam sebegini. Ramai orang zaman sekarang dah kurang menekankan Bab silaturrahim.. lebih rela pasif & berasa terasing daripada ahli keluarga yang mereka tidak kenal. 

Tapi dengan izin Allah, ramai yang hadir, Masha Allah.. Sampai venue tak muat! 


Tahniah juga kepada Mama @Zahurin kerana sudi menjadi MC dan membantu menganjurkan majlis, especially dgn aktiviti ice breaking yg sangat kreatif. 


Semoga segala kebaikan yang berbuah daripada usaha ini terus-menerus mendapat ganjaran Allah sebagai saham akhirat mereka, seperti kata Nabi ï·º, "barangsiapa yang membimbing kepada kebaikan, maka baginya juga pahala pelaku kebaikan tersebut" (HR Muslim) 


Semoga menjadi inspirasi untuk umat kita dalam usaha menjalinkan silaturrahim sesama kita. Dan semoga keluarga Al-Ibrahimi sentiasa mendapat hidayah Allah agar terus istiqamah sehingga kita bersatu di Jannatul firdaus.