Masha Allah nice catching up with Sarawakian buddies Aziz, Aiman, Amal, Hisham, Erfan.. Lamak sik klaka Sarawak ehh.. di Perlis of all places 🤣. Rasa kedak balit Kampung iyeerrhh
Visited by bro Azizul n Wife.. Triggering deep discussion about parenting challenges and struggles and how we overcome them.. How we play our role as fathers and husbands, how to handle high needs children, how we prioritize and strategies their education and personal development, and so much more.
I find it's important that we fathers have focus groups on these matters as a jamaah, and surface out these challenges and solutions, like a community of Practice.
As my podcast buddy Aziz said, these are challenges that we all face, yet very few fathers speak out about it, and choose to keep to ourselves. Sometimes there is an unhealthy taboo of shame, judging ourselves, our spouses or our children ("is there something wrong with them/me?"). Parenting today in the 21st century isn't the same as it was when we grew up, and we can't just copy and paste what we think we know, especially if we aspire to be the change to raise future leaders in our ummah.
May Allah bless these gathering and these awesome brothers who travelled from Borneo just to attend PISC2025 , and may Allah grant us steadfastness to play our role to be the change our ummah needs to nurture and raise righteous families.
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