As our son Muawiyah turns 7, I reflect on our parenting journey: What kind of human beings are we raising? What role will they play in society when they're independent? What kind of parents or partners will they become? And most importantly, how are we actively shaping this?
I'm reminded of Prophet Yusuf's story. Separated from his family between ages 6 and 9, he faced decades of challenges alone – from being thrown into a well to becoming ruler of Egypt. His formative years with Prophet Ya'qub instilled the values and principles that prepared him for life's arduous journey.
Our role as parents is similar: how well have we prepared our children for LIFE?
Raising children isn't just about grades or achievements; it's about building character – traits they'll carry through their studies, careers, and family lives. As parents, we are enablers, guides, facilitators, and, most importantly, role models in nurturing their character.
Here are 16 crucial character traits to cultivate in our children, empowering them to become wholesome individuals who lead and contribute to uplifting society.
1. Resourcefulness and independence
2. Having High aspirations, and believe in their ability to achieve them.
3. Grit and resilience
4. Growth mindset
5. Patience for Delayed Gratification
6. Team player: Tolerance in putting up with others & to collaborate with others.
7. A strong sense of self-Identity & moral values
8. Speaking up
9. Honesty and authenticity
10. Responsibility & taking accountability
11. Discipline & willpower
12. Self confidence, self-esteem and self-compassion
13. Compassion & Generosity
14. Emotional Intelligence (EQ)
15. Gratitude
16. Righteousness & sincerity
رَبَّنَا هَبۡ لَنَا مِنۡ أَزۡوَٰجِنَا وَذُرِّيَّٰتِنَا قُرَّةَ أَعۡيُنࣲ وَٱجۡعَلۡنَا لِلۡمُتَّقِينَ إِمَامًا
"Our Lord, grant our wives and children to be the comfort to our eyes,
and make us leaders of the righteous."
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