Alhamdulillah.. the Straight Path Convention ’15 was a great
learning experience for me, and many others. But the learning and experience
extended far beyond the talks / lectures themselves.
Quite a few things happened offline which I found were quite
some eye openers, and here are the significant top #7 in my perspective :
#8 Huge Volume of Jemaah Prayer
Put into perspective that “the larger jemaah is more beloved
to Allah”, this is an extremely undervalued experience of the event; when over
500 people pray together in jemaah for Asr and Zuhur prayers - an experience
one can only witness in Friday prayers or taraweeh in Ramadhan – this is truly
something special.
The Prophet Muhammad (صلى الله عليه وسلم) said
“وَصَلاَةُ الرَّجُلِ مَعَ الرَّجُلِ أَزْكَى مِنْ صَلاَتِهِ وَحْدَهُ
وَصَلاَةُ الرَّجُلِ مَعَ الرَّجُلَيْنِ أَزْكَى مِنْ صَلاَتِهِ مَعَ الرَّجُلِ
وَمَا كَانُوا أَكْثَرَ فَهُوَ أَحَبُّ إِلَى اللَّهِ عَزَّ وَجَلَّ”
“A man's prayer with another man is greater in reward than
his prayer alone. And a man's prayer with two other men is greater in reward
than his prayer with one other man; the more people there are, the more beloved
that is to Allah, the Mighty and Sublime."
(Narrated by ibn Majah, graded “Hasan”)
If a convention like this is what it takes for us to have
this excellent degree in addition to the ‘default 27 multiplied rewards’ in
congregational prayer - even if it means enduring some warmth due to the air
conditioning malfunction - then we could certainly use more events like this.
On a side note, organizers especially Islamic events -
should organize the jemaah prayers to allow as much people as possible for the
jamaah. Designate an appointed Imam, an iqamah time, a person amongst the
jemaah to "echo" The Imam in case they can’t hear, etc.
If you think about it, why did Allah specifically reveal the khusuf prayer in times of war? War
would be a perfectly legitimate reason to take ‘shifts’ to pray, so that we can
stand guard – let alone an event, wedding, or a conference, which no one’s
lives will get threatened if you pray in congregation. Yet Allah intended that
despite the circumstances, here is a method that can allow you to pray all at
once, and stand guard at the same time. Yes, it’s that important.
#7 An Unexpected Surprise Gift
When it was mentioned onstage that “if you want extra good
deeds, you can buy pizza for the volunteers – we don’t mind”, that remark was
half serious. Half because we would like it, but the other half because we knew
people would take it jokingly and probably not expecting to do it.
A few minutes after the announcement was made on the second
day, 2 young boys came up to us, aged between 5-9 and handed me a bag of
raisins and dates. They said, “We would like to give this to the volunteers.
It’s not as good as pizza, but we hope you like it anyway”
Aww… Masha Allah.. so nice!
It gets better. After the lunch break was nearing its end,
Lo and Behold – at the volunteers dining area – 2 large pizzas dedicated
especially for the volunteers. Allahu Akbar!
Even if they may not consider it as “a big deal”, we
couldn’t help but feel touched and very grateful for their contributions
nevertheless. May Allah reward you all with abundant goodness.. Amin!
“لاَ تَحْقِرَنَّ مِنَ الْمَعْرُوفِ شَيْئًا وَلَوْ أَنْ تَلْقَى
أَخَاكَ بِوَجْهٍ طَلْقٍ”
“Do not belittle (consider insignificant) any good deed that
you do, even if it is to meet your brother with a cheerful face” (Narrated in
Sahih Muslim)
Here’s hoping that it starts a chain of inspirational events
for volunteers of future events to come. =)
The Prophet said,
“مَنْ سَنَّ سُنَّةَ خَيْرٍ فَاتُّبِعَ عَلَيْهَا فَلَهُ أَجْرُهُ
وَمِثْلُ أُجُورِ مَنِ اتَّبَعَهُ غَيْرَ مَنْقُوصٍ مِنْ أُجُورِهِمْ شَيْئًا”
“Whoever starts a good tradition/act which is followed, then
for him is a reward, and the likes of their rewards of whoever follows him,
there being nothing diminished from their rewards.” (Narrated by At-Tirmidzi,
graded Sahih)
#6 Reciting Khutbatul Hajah in a Crowd
This one may not seem like much, but it's something very personal and close to my heart. Since i first started to be educated on the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad several years ago, I've always had grown a fondness and liking towards the Khutbat-ul Haajjah - it's the "standard" introductory speech that most islamic lecturers would use, one that was taught by the Prophet to be delivered in the beginning of an important speech.
It is the speech that would remind me of the lectures that Allah had guided me to the true teachings of Islam - the Qur'an and the Sunnah - because of how consistently this khutbah was delivered in those lectures.
Whenever i would hear this at a masjid - or anywhere in general - i would surely steal a glance to see "Who" is delivering it. I've always wanted a chance to deliver it myself to a group of people.
So when the opportunity came to start off the event with this, in front of a crowd of thousands, i took the opportunity. And it felt great, walhamdulillah!
The khutbat-ul Haajjah text is as follows:
"Verily, all praise is for Allaah, we seek His help and His forgiveness. We seek
refuge with Allaah from the evil of our own souls [and from our bad
deeds]. Whomsoever Allaah guides will never be led astray, and
whomsoever Allaah leaves astray, no one can guide. I bear witness that
there is no god but Allaah, [alone and without any partner] and I bear
witness that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger."
This one may not seem like much, but it's something very personal and close to my heart. Since i first started to be educated on the sunnah of the Prophet Muhammad several years ago, I've always had grown a fondness and liking towards the Khutbat-ul Haajjah - it's the "standard" introductory speech that most islamic lecturers would use, one that was taught by the Prophet to be delivered in the beginning of an important speech.
It is the speech that would remind me of the lectures that Allah had guided me to the true teachings of Islam - the Qur'an and the Sunnah - because of how consistently this khutbah was delivered in those lectures.
Whenever i would hear this at a masjid - or anywhere in general - i would surely steal a glance to see "Who" is delivering it. I've always wanted a chance to deliver it myself to a group of people.
So when the opportunity came to start off the event with this, in front of a crowd of thousands, i took the opportunity. And it felt great, walhamdulillah!
The khutbat-ul Haajjah text is as follows:
إن الحمد لله [نحمده] ونستعينه ونستغفره ونعوذ بالله من شرور
أنفسنا [ومن سيئات أعمالنا] من يهده الله فلا مضل له ومن يضلل فلا هادي له
وأشهد أن لا إله إلا الله وحده لا شريك له] وأشهد أن محمدا عبده ورسوله]
#5 Volunteer T. K. O
Now one would think that, being a volunteer for an event
like this, especially working as an usher or stage crew, that it’s virtually
like “getting a free ticket to the event”, right?
Well, not really. This was a typical scene you would see
backstage of the volunteers, especially on the first day: They would come in,
with the Shaykh/Speaker, they would provide the Shaykh with exceptional
hospitality, smiles never leaving their faces.
And when the shaykh finally comes onstage to give the talk,
the volunteers finally have time to catch their breath, out of their tiredness,
they immediately face a total knockout, and go to sleep; unable to
listen/benefit from the lecture.
Many of the brothers I met, the efforts they poured into to
make this event a success was just phenomenal; just to allow the audiences for
a smooth event, and without earning a single cent doing so, and even depriving their own
sleep in the process.
The work behind the scenes often go unthanked and
unremarked, but without these unrecognized efforts, perhaps we’ll never have
the polished final product that we see. So let us all make du’aa that Allah
accepts all their deeds and blesses them – and that they’ll get to eventually
benefit from the lectures via the DVD.
The Prophet said,
من لم يشكر الناس، لم يشكر الله عز و جل
"Whomsoever isn't thankful to the people, isn't thankful to Allah 'azza wajal" (Narrated in At-Tirmidhi)
"Whomsoever isn't thankful to the people, isn't thankful to Allah 'azza wajal" (Narrated in At-Tirmidhi)
#4 Participants and Attendees BHD *
You would think that an Islamic event, with Speakers from
all across the world, and a 3000-strong large gathering of Muslims, with such
modest clothing, that people would have the additional conscience to be on
their best character and best behavior, right?
What we experienced was rather unfortunate, as many of the
participants displayed some rather poor behavior and attitude:
- A particular soft spoken middle aged brother was told by
the usherers to move seats to allow others to come in. He put his fingers to
his ears, closed his eyes shut, and said, “I’m not going anywhere! I refuse to
move!”
- As the airconditioning system failed on the morning of the
second day, several volunteers suffered ruthless complaints and verbal abuse
from the attendees; forgetting that contrary to popular belief, these
volunteers aren’t trained air conditioning maintenance technicians, or that
their complaints would make any difference in helping the situation anyway. So
drama.
- A particular sister booked seats despite repeated
instructions not to do so; when reminded, she just said “takpe lah”, whatever.
Another sister sat in reserved seats, despite not having authorization to do so,
repeatedly ignoring all instructions to move.
- At lunchtime, a senior sister waited quite a while for her
food to arrive, due to the huge crowds. When the waiter – a Muslim – was
carrying some food, she rudely remarked “bring that here – I think I deserve my
food after my 40 minutes of waiting”
And these are only a few of the many examples of bad
behavior that we witnessed across the event. To put it bluntly, Participants *Buat
Hal Doe (BHD)..
The Prophet said,
“إنما بعثت لأتمم
مكارم الأخلاق”
“Verily, I have only been sent to perfect good character”
(Narrated in the Muwatta of Imam Malik)
Think about this message: the whole purpose that Allah sent
the Prophet Muhammad to mankind – the message of Islam in its entirety – is to
perfect good manners and character. Now if we came to an Islamic conference
without our behavior being improved, then have we lost the plot?
If we can’t listen to simple instructions of a conference,
then how will we have the discipline to follow more difficult instructions,
under more difficult circumstances to obey Allah?
If we can’t be patient for some simple matters, how can we
be patient during the time that Ad-Dajjal is unleashed upon the Earth – when we
are deprived of the basic necessities for survival? Which volunteers will you
blame then? Which waiters will you attack now?
If truly strive to be better Muslims in any way, then strive
for improving our character – with ourselves, with Allah, and with other human
beings and creation of Allah.
#3 Filtering out Questions for Q&A
The Questions and Answers sessions was one of the best I’ve
witnessed in a conference such as this, as the organizers worked hard in
prioritizing and filtering to endeavour their very best to allow for the most
benefit possible to the attendees.
And the whole process was quite an eye opener, as we saw all
sorts of questions being asked – it gave you a broader perspective to
understand what people’s primary concerns were, and what perspectives they see
/ like to see things.
Sure, we have some filler stuff like “Can I please take a
photo with Mufti Menk”, but there are also many serious issues that need
serious answers.
Some of these questions, most people would be too shy or too
afraid to ask, but the anonymous way in which it was conducted made it easy for
their concerns to be addressed.
It’s a valuble lesson for organizers to facilitate this the
best they can; find the best possible way to benefit the people instead of just
delivering what “they feel is the best” – and in this case, allow them to ask
the tough burning questions. The Prophet said,
“أَلَمْ يَكُنْ شِفَاءُ الْعِيِّ السُّؤَالَ”
“Is not the cure of ignorance, to ask questions?” (Sunan Abu
Dawud, graded “hasan”)
#2 A Conversation To Remember
If you’ve spent 5 minutes in a conversation with Shaykh
Ismail Menk, you would know that Shaykh is a sharp, quick-witted individual.
Couple that, with being onstage during a Q&A session with a British public
speaker – Abdul Raheem Green – and one would expect some exciting results. And
boy, it was:
Question: “I am trying my very best to uphold the sunnah of
the Prophet by keeping my beard. However my father is forcing me to shave it
off. What should I do? This question is for Mufti Menk”
Mufti Menk : “Actually you should direct this to Abdul
Raheem. His beard is longer than mine”
Abdul Raheem : “No, shaykh, yours has much more volume
(pointing to the cheeks)”
Mufti Menk: “Volume… no, ya akhi, I don’t have the volume..
it’s in the shampoo”
And in another scene:
Question: “This is for Abdul Raheem Green. How do we answer
the argument that Hijab is an Arabic culture and not from Islam?”
Abdul Raheem Green : “That is a very good question, which I
will pass to Mufti Menk”
Mufti Menk : (After answering the question). “I will now
continue the tradition that was initiated by Abdul Raheem Green by now passing
the mic to Muhammad Salah”.
And there are many more memorable moments. Witnessing the Shuyukh
onstage interacting was a truly memorable moment; and it’s worth noting that
despite some of them having only met each other for the first time and coming
from completely different parts of the world, the chemistry they had was
amazing, and a genuine warm atmosphere of brotherhood.
#1 Personal Encouragement and Advice from a Da’ee
This is the most personal memory I have from the event,
which comes across as rather surprising considering the circumstances. During
one of the lectures, prior to going onstage, Abdul Raheem Green sat beside me.
He then leaned toward me and signaled me to come closer,
which he said : “You should be a speaker one day. I’ll teach you how”
He then gave immediate tips we can implement to improve our
public speaking skills :
“Relate to little children. Tell them stories, stories of
the Prophets, stories of the companions, whatever.
Children are the most brutally honest critics ever – if they
get bored, you’ll immediately be able to tell from their faces. If they like
you, they won’t take their eyes and ears off you. And if you caught their
attention, you know you’ve achieved something.
Leading Halaqaat and lessons are good and all, but you are
addressing a mature, adult audience, who want the knowledge. They will probably
focus on the content more than the actual delivery style, and will listen to
you even if you’re bad or boring. So they’ll never give you the feedback you
need to improve as a speaker.”
Amazing advice, Shaykh – masha Allah!
#theStraightPath
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